RESTART YOUR LIFE SURVEY

1)  What are your greatest challenges?
2)  What are your goals for recovery from separation
      or divorce?
3)  What would achieving these goals do for you?
4)  If you don't achieve these goals, what will happen?
5)  If you asked me any question you were afraid to ask,
      what would it be?
6)  What type of everyday items do you need to restart new
      passions, interests, or anything to restart your life?

OPEN A NEW DOOR

Most people share at least one thing in common. We internally desire comfort, pleasure, security, and happiness.  Only God and a close relationship with a significant other provides a spiritual balance that satisfies are need for friendship, companionship, and love.

Build a plan to search and reach for this desire.  As we get older, smarter, and focused the chances of attaining our goal increases.  You must be transitional, open-minded, and flexible to open a new chapter in your life!

Don't FORGET to Forgive!

Do you want a solution for your new challenge?  Face it square on the head.  Accept responsibility for your situation.  Forgive everyone that is involved.  This is the first step that must be done in order to bring back your personal happiness!

Time heals, instructs, and provides you away to love.  Be patient with others.  Be patient with divorce and take one step at a time.  Don't rush into anything!  Find a way to heal first!

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NATIONAL POETRY!

April 26th was National Poem in Your Pocket Day.
   New Yorkers started in 2002 (nyc.gov/poem).
   My poem is dedicated to all  

the Poets in the USA!

Please read some of the poetry from New York!

(www.nyc.gov/poem)

*Check out other poems for new young poets!

MAKING FRIENDS AFTER DIVORCE:

Join some group that captures your interest.  List how many people you meet at least once per week.  Identify what individuals you can help or have interest in friendship.  Pray each day for these people.  Try to develop friendships by spending time with them at least once per month on a one-to-one basis.  Show an active interest in what they like to do.   Invite them out to do something of interest.  After twelve months, you will have built friendships based on selflessness.  These friendships will then become a start of a new beginning.  Hopefully with time they will reciprocate in the same effort or you should discontinue some of the relationships.  It should be a win-win situation.

************* DIVORCE: Option 1 or Option 2? *************

Individuals experiencing divorce or separation who want to move forward will learn how to build a new lifestyle in a positive direction.  Individuals who do not desire to move forward will stay in discomfort for many years.

One plan that works well is to listen to people who can help you to conquer your fears and learn a new way of living.  Friends, new friends, or even authors on the subject, you begin to trust, who are not offering destructive opinions, are God-given gifts.  Their loyalty will give you an internal drive to help you build a solution to your concerns and provide you a way to build a foundation for a new start!

We as a nation are still God centered, there is a little bit of God in everyone of us.  We are all worthy of self-esteem and protection from a downfall.  Old, but don't forget new friends experiencing divorce are invaluable! 

THE VALUE OF NEW TRUST AND PURPOSE

You learn more personal and meaningful knowledge from your friends and family than you will ever learn from the news, jobs, and books.  Select your friends and network wisely.

As an individual, we are responsible for our own happiness and personal goals.  But most of us have been raised with good values by our parents, school, and church.  Our challenge is not what we know!  The struggle is giving up our internal pride and selfish wills.  To be happy, we must live with love from others and walk a righteous path.

In loving others, we have a choice of love or selfishness; love or pride; love or gluttony; love or jealousy; and love or lust…  Inside we know we must love, again!   It is our decision, no one else’s!

In walking our talk, we cannot do this without belief in God.  The candle has been lit by our friends and family.  We can choose what is good, just, true, and noble in every situation.  Protect it.  Don’t let the world corrupt it!  It allows us to build long lasting friendships and relationships.

****** THE NEW YOU – AWAKENING PASSIONS! ******

 
1) HOW TO RESTART YOUR NEW LIFE:

* Try a brand new creative process that brings joy.

* Liberate yourself, learn from it, but forget the past.

* How to remove your worst feelings, emotions with

    poetry, and why you must do this in order to realize

    your greater potential.

2) POWER TO REALIZE THERE IS A BETTER LIFE:

* Experience the fun of being alive again and

   understand where you have been, but

   where you are going.

* The ability to control your inner emotions, feelings,
      and unleash your "final destiny."

* Learn how to access the unlimited support/resources
      all around you to bring new happiness in your life.

3) HOW TO IDENTIFY YOUR TRUE FRIENDS:

* Learn why we cannot live on an island by ourselves,

   how to create friendships that support/nourish new self.

* How to partner with friends/family to revive passion.

* How to rebuild or remake ourselves to become a
      powerful agent for change and join with others to
      celebrate the new you.

 Secrets of a Heart addresses the creative outlet and seasonal need and solution for couples challenged by family struggle, divorce or separation
 into a positive lifestyle
 for family, friends, and self!

REJUVENATE!

Your Body, Mind, and Soul

through a Collection of Poetry

by Gordon DeClercq!

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Hi Poetry Enthusiast,

I am on a mission to help people put balance into their lives, be creative, and explore their unique potential. As fast as this world is changing today, people barely have time to think.  With so much to do, it seems easier to just try to do it all rather than stress yourself to decide what’s really important. Doing all the work still won't guarantee you'll reach your deadlines or accomplish your goals.

Your challenge is to find a way to choose the special things, not everything.   Doing the right steps to add creativity to your life is important!  Please check out my first published collection of poetry:  Secrets of a Heart.  These tips have worked for both me and my readers in choosing the important things to focus on in order to lead a less stressful life and feel successful.

A poet, wrapped in the trappings of a—A New American Way culture, finding a way to embrace a difficult world while seemingly rejecting it at first glimpse…but even today maybe mistakenly assuming the worst, then attempting to adapt to its new challenges!

“Poetry is to a healing mind,

what exercise is to a healthy body!

Talk to the Author (Gordon) at (248)701-0740.