Friday, January 13, 2012


Most people share at least one thing in common. We internally desire comfort, pleasure, security, and happiness.  Only God and a close relationship with a significant other provides a spiritual balance that satisfies are need for friendship, companionship, and love.

Build a plan to search and reach for this desire.  As we get older, smarter, and focused the chances of attaining our goal increases.  You must be transitional, open-minded, and flexible to open a new chapter in your life!

Thursday, January 12, 2012

Don't FORGET to Forgive!

Do you want a solution for your new challenge?  Face it square on the head.  Accept responsibility for your situation.  Forgive everyone that is involved.  This is the first step that must be done in order to bring back your personal happiness!

Time heals, instructs, and provides you away to love.  Be patient with others.  Be patient with divorce and take one step at a time.  Don't rush into anything!  Find a way to heal first!



April 26th was National Poem in Your Pocket Day.
   New Yorkers started in 2002 (
   My poem is dedicated to all  
the Poets in the USA!

Please read some of the poetry from New York!
*Check out other poems for new young poets!

Wednesday, January 11, 2012


Join some group that captures your interest.  List how many people you meet at least once per week.  Identify what individuals you can help or have interest in friendship.  Pray each day for these people.  Try to develop friendships by spending time with them at least once per month on a one-to-one basis.  Show an active interest in what they like to do.   Invite them out to do something of interest.  After twelve months, you will have built friendships based on selflessness.  These friendships will then become a start of a new beginning.  Hopefully with time they will reciprocate in the same effort or you should discontinue some of the relationships.  It should be a win-win situation.

************* DIVORCE: Option 1 or Option 2? *************

Individuals experiencing divorce or separation who want to move forward will learn how to build a new lifestyle in a positive direction.  Individuals who do not desire to move forward will stay in discomfort for many years.

One plan that works well is to listen to people who can help you to conquer your fears and learn a new way of living.  Friends, new friends, or even authors on the subject, you begin to trust, who are not offering destructive opinions, are God-given gifts.  Their loyalty will give you an internal drive to help you build a solution to your concerns and provide you a way to build a foundation for a new start!

We as a nation are still God centered, there is a little bit of God in everyone of us.  We are all worthy of self-esteem and protection from a downfall.  Old, but don't forget new friends experiencing divorce are invaluable!